So You Want Unity?

So you want unity?

But you are not willing to forgive your friends for what they have done in the past.

Therefore, my advice to you is, forget about unity.

Yeah, forget it, because re-acceptance is really the key to tie up loose bonds, and if you are not willing to forgive a friend for something he/she may have done to you in the past, then why talk about unity? In my humble opinion, that is simply being hypocritical.

Surely friendship means more than remembering grievances. Think about the good times we had together. Think about all that fun, laughter and joy. Does it mean nothing to you? Do you not cherish those wonderful days we shared, and do you not want those days back?

If you want it back, then you've got to work for it. It is not an "either the sorry offender or the forgiving victim" thing. Yes, the offender has to regret what he/she has done, but the victim must also be gracious enough to forgive him/her.

To err is human. We all mistakes, learn from them, and then we move on. But to condemn a friend for what he/she has done months, even years ago? Surely there is more to friendship than that.

Please, many of us are craving for a complete puzzle in the bond of friendship, and it cannot be completed with missing pieces.

Won't you do your part?

If not, stop ranting about unity because you do not seriously want it.